Super hot take: Polyamory is an excuse for being a shitty person with no self control. Especially if you use it as a way to cheat on you partner (or partners, I guess) who aren't polyamorous themselves and didn't explicitly agree to an open relationship.
Before you ask: No, my girlfriend didn't cheat on me. This has nothing to do with her.
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People use it as a way to make them feel good. But in reality, they don’t actually have a good relationship. They just have multiple hook up buddies, and a terrible relationship with their main partner.
interesting because most monoam(?) relationships i know are toxic and break up, but most polycules i know of are still healthy years later
Sure, monoams don't ever get married. Let's also not forget the statistical advantage