Okay, I'm gonna preface this by saying that I don't understand why how this discussion became so heated, because I simply began by inquiring why you made certain statements. I will also not respond anymore to respect your wishes to end the conversation, but I'm trying to make it clear that I have no reason to be hostile to you or dislike you.

The only reason I even replied to you was to object when you started by saying that everything lily ever did was controversial, and when I pointed out that that was incorrect (as the vast majority of her posts weren't remotely controversial), you changed your argument and started criticising the quality of her posts about her life.

You don't have to care about what happens in someone's life (and no one is saying you do), but you can at least respect their right to post about it to those who do. It doesn't invalidate their contributions to the site, just because you didn't particularly value them. Let’s remember to keep the discussion friendly I think we all want there to be an active community on wasteof, but saying that you're happy someone left because you didn't like the posts about their life doesn't seem fair.