''when people call you a ''snowflake'' just remember theyre quoting Fight Club, a satire written by a gay man about how male fragility causes men to destroy themselves, resent society, and become radicalized, and that Tyler Durden isn't the hero, but a personification of the main character's mental illness, and how his ''snowflake'' speech is a dig at how fascists use dehumanizing languages to breed loyalty from insecure people.

so basically, people who say ''snowflake'' as an insult are quoting a domestic terrorist who blows up skyscrapers because he's insecure about how good he is in bed.''-random online

something interesting I found.