i feel like the only person that should be allowed on the site is @allyz because she's the only nice one i can think of off the top of my head (my brain doesn’t work though)
Honestly then the website might not be for you and you need another break from the website to cool down and rethink…
It isn’t clear at all when you’re joking or not and this is why people misunderstand you, assume the worse and start disliking you. You need to make your tone clearer when something is a joke or not